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Tag: Faith

  • Fearing the Worst & Why I Eat Kale

    Fearing the Worst & Why I Eat Kale

    When I love, I love hard and grieve even harder. The worst of it is that I tend to grieve things that haven’t even happened. That’s just plan fear and worry. As I’ve mentioned on this blog, thanks to a dear, dear sister in Christ, this phenomenon is called stinkn’ thinkn’! #yourethebestSharky I am fearing…

  • The Joys of Budgeting During Change

    The Joys of Budgeting During Change

    I’m writing this as much for me as I am for you. Preachn’ to myself, everyone! Planning for the future is hard. Next chapter’s structure, funding said next chapter, God throwing instruction into my plans, doing life with another person… it all is hard to manage and get flowing into the same direction. It doesn’t…

  • Sleepless Nights and a Craving for Deep, Meaningful Camaraderie

    Sleepless Nights and a Craving for Deep, Meaningful Camaraderie

    Her candle doesn’t go out by night. {Proverbs 31:18} This girl’s candle typically blows out between 9:30 and 10pm. The fight usually begins around 8:30pm, though. That moment when my eyes start heavily drooping and my mind flirts with the R.E.M. cycle. Sleep hasn’t come easy lately. I don’t exactly know why but I’m suspicious…

  • Go Team Go: How to Promote Unity in Marriage

    Go Team Go: How to Promote Unity in Marriage

    A strong marriage begins with our individual relationship with the Lord. I’ve noticed in my own marital bliss that things can go very wrong and it usually stems from Brooks or me taking a lackadaisical approach to our faith and trust in God. Over and over we have to realign our steps to His will…

  • Making Homemade Butter: Life Lessons from the Kitchen

    Making Homemade Butter: Life Lessons from the Kitchen

    Ah, the life of a writer… finding similarities in the oddest of scenarios. One of my “New Year’s Resolutions”, is to source my food holistically and locally. This in hopes of successfully coming alongside the low iron deficiency anemia and MTHFR that I’ve been diagnosed with. So, I decided to try my hand at making…

  • Musings of a Life on Mission

    Musings of a Life on Mission

    It’s Sunday. The final day of 2017 and it’s a chilly one. Coffee steaming from our mugs is calling us to sip. Brooks and I are sitting by the wood stove hearing the crackle of fire. Flashes of light are bursting through the wood stove. Thoughts and wonderment are stirring my heart about the close…

  • A Different Kind of Christmas: What to do When Christmas Isn’t Merry

    I have always envisioned Christmas morning at my house. It’s a dream of mine to wake up and watch my children & husband open gifts while I sip my coffee. From there, I’d move to my farmhouse kitchen, still wrapped in my bathrobe, where I would scramble some eggs and whip up some monkey bread….

  • Faith & Medical Intervention: My Story of Seeking a Doctor

    Faith & Medical Intervention: My Story of Seeking a Doctor

    I’ve gone back and forth about writing this post for a few reasons. First, there are components of my faith and personal walk with the Lord that are private. There are prayers that I pray, convictions that I work through, and even celebrations that will remain between He and I. I’ve wondered if God’s words to…

  • From Newlywed to Newly Infertile: Encouragement for the Infertile Newlywed

    From Newlywed to Newly Infertile: Encouragement for the Infertile Newlywed

    I have been thinking about all of the young women around me getting engaged. Perhaps even newly married now and I ponder the realization that they may find themselves walking the same road of infertility as me. To you newlyweds, there may be a time when you decide “it’s time”. It’s time to grow your…

  • Keep Going: A Note of Encouragement

    Keep Going: A Note of Encouragement

    Bouncing back. That’s the ability I’ve been gaining back these days and it feels so awesome. Since the miscarriage in 2016, I’ve been going through one of the worst seasons ever! I normally work my way through the messes of life and come out stronger. But, not this time. Losing that ability was rough and…